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         Introduction to Conscious Discipline  
         OUR NEIGHBORHOOD CHILD DEVELOPMENT CENTER 
         Updated – March 30, 2017 
         CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE© was written by Dr. Becky Bailey who has compiled, summarized, and formatted years of brain 
         development research into a digestible and practical format for teachers and families. Conscious Discipline© uses the 
         word discipline in its traditional meaning, "to teach." The goal is to teach through bringing conscious awareness to the 
         child. Conscious Discipline© is based on teaching and parenting with the brain in mind. This information about brain 
         development provides the foundation for the practices of Conscious Discipline©. Loving Guidance is the parent company 
         for all of Becky Bailey’s work. www.ConsciousDiscipline.com  
         Basics of Your Brain 
                 Brains are wired by our experiences, and the foundation of the brain is built in the early years. 
                 Children need serve-and-return interactions, and attuned care from adults to build their brain. 
                 Support to calm stress can build the brain, but without support, stress can be toxic. 
         3 Brain States – How You Feel Predicts How You Act 
                                                    Adults                       Children 
          Executive State  Conflict is a call for help                         I can reflect on my 
                                             and can be solved with        choices, learn, and make 
                What can I learn?                   new skills.                     changes. 
          Emotional State  Conflict is irritating and                       The world is not going 
                   Am I Loved?                   must be stopped.             my way. Fix it now. 
            Survival State                    Conflict is threatening      Everything and everyone 
                    Am I Safe?                and must be punished.       is a threat, protect myself. 
         Your Role in Brain-Based Teaching in Three Steps 
              1.  Establish Safety  
                          Attuned and composed adult 
                          Emotional, social, and physical safety 
                          Predictability 
              2.  Give Unconditional Love 
                          Connection – A sense of belonging 
                          Empathy – An understanding of their needs and perspective 
                          Encouragement – Support, acceptance, coaching, and acknowledgment 
                          Choices – Autonomy and free will 
              3.  Support Reflection and Learning 
                          Positive Intent – Acknowledging of needs and intention to meet needs 
                          Brainstorming – Considering alternatives and their possible impact 
                          Learning – Discovering new ways to meet needs 
                         Meta-cognition – Thinking about thinking                                             
                                                                                                 1Diii Introduction to Conscious Discipline 
          
         Skills of Conscious Discipline 
         To build this brain-based parenting model, Conscious Discipline relies on the following seven skills.  
              Composure                 Only if we are composed can we access the logical problem solving brain. Composure is about 
                                        learning to accept, process, and regulate emotions before making a decision or solving a 
                                        problem. 
          Encouragement  We all need the help and support of our family and friends. Encouragement is about providing 
                                        that support with full acceptance and without judgment. 
            Assertiveness               Clear and direct communication of our boundaries and expectations supports everyone to 
                                        succeed together. Children need to see adults say no respectfully so they can learn how to say 
                                        no respectfully when they need to draw a boundary. 
                 Choices                All people have a basic need for autonomy. Helping children to see their choices and have 
                                        some control in their world supports children to learn decision making skills and helps 
                                        children learn to cooperate while maintaining their autonomy. 
            Positive Intent             All people are simply making choices with the best information and skills they have. Seeing a 
                                        situation or behavior through a lens of children simply trying to meet their needs, we can 
                                        accept the moment as it is and see an opportunity to teach. 
                Empathy                 Through empathy we stay connected as a community. When we can connect with others, we 
                                        can see how our choices impact them. When we feel empathy from others, we can better 
                                        maintain our composure to make good decisions and solve problems. 
            Consequences                Consequences are not punishments or rewards but simply the outcome of our choices. When 
                                        we fully feel and embrace the consequences of our choices, we can learn from the decisions we 
                                        have made and make better choices in the future. 
          
         Conscious Discipline Resources 
                 CONSCIOUS DISCIPLINE by Dr. Becky Bailey 
                 www.consciousdiscipline.com 
                 EASY TO LOVE, DIFFICULT TO DISCIPLINE by Dr. Becky Bailey 
                 MANAGING EMOTIONAL MAYHEM by Dr. Becky Bailey 
                 I LOVE YOU RITUALS by Dr.  Becky Bailey  
                 YouTube Conscious Discipline, 
                  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUVecCCnEseDxWTDeran1lQ  
                 YouTube Coaching Emotions, 
                  https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=becky+bailey+emotions  
                 Shubert and Sophie Books 
                 Becky Bailey CDs – Brain Boogie Boosters, It Starts in the Heart, I Love You 
                  Rituals, Come Join the Circle, Listen to Your Feelings 
                    
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